We often speak in general terms about health priorities without discussing immediate risk. But when caught in a moment that requires a swift choice to survive, talk of other health priorities seems less than important. And the choice to avoid immediate danger at the expense of something that could put us at greater risk in the future doesn’t really feel like a choice at all. Health decisions are often like that.

Standing in an underground concrete box filled with spider webs and strangers a couple of nights ago, I felt like spiders were crawling on my flip-flop clad feet. Would they bite me? Would I have an allergic reaction? Was that guy’s sneeze an indication of a contagious virus or a response to dust? The thoughts ran through my head, but I was sure my priorities were right.
At 2:40 in the morning, I would rather have stayed in bed. I was concerned about spider bites and potential exposure to illness in an enclosed space. But I was staying in an RV. Radar showed three rotating storm cells in the area. General health priorities took a back seat to the decision to avoid the immediate danger of being hit by a tornado.
In retrospect, the decision was sound. A 1500 yard wide 145 mph tornado proceeded on a 20-mile path about two miles away. It killed 4 people. Seeing twisted, collapsed buildings on my route the next morning reinforced my belief that the danger was real. Another camping area in the path saw RVs much larger than mine flipped onto their tops.
Not everyone in the RV park came to the shelter. Did the others know more than we did or were they more comfortable with risk? Were they more concerned with feeling claustrophobic than with being safe? Did they value the comfort of their RV more than temporary discomfort? Did they talk themselves out of a belief they were in danger? One guy started driving around in his truck. Perhaps he thought he could outrun the storm.
We all assess things differently. It’s often difficult to understand why a friend or relative makes the health decisions they make. But what seems clear to me may not be clear at all to someone else. Or they may have a concern that supersedes physical risk.
It can be helpful to think of health decisions in a timeline – immediate risk must be addressed first. After that, it may be harder to determine order. You can always start with what will make your life more pleasant.
For me that’s for my stomach not to hurt, my joints not to ache, and not to feel like my blood sugar is dropping. That means avoiding gluten, eating a low histamine diet, and keeping my mealtimes regular.
It’s easy to view avoiding gluten as making your life less pleasant and it does require an adjustment. But the inconvenience is worth it to me because I feel so much better. I also know I’m increasing my life expectancy. Together, that’s a powerful argument for making dietary adherence a priority.
Next up, I feel better when I move. I don’t have to do anything herculean. Yoga, gardening, swimming, lifting weights, and chasing grandchildren get me away from the computer. As long as I include them on a regular basis, I feel good and stay flexible.
And so it goes. When making health decisions, I try to look at both the big picture and the immediate risks. That clarifies many decisions for me. Perhaps a similar approach can help you prioritize as well.
